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Magical thought n° 167
Even if sometimes it's enough to make you cry… 😢 But crying won't change anything, except perhaps add sadness to the prevailing gloom, with the risk of drowning in our tears as we navigate the chaos of humanity… 💧 On the other hand, if we cry with laughter 😂, then everything changes! ❗️ Crying and laughing are, in fact, never far apart. The laughter Michel Boujenah speaks of is neither mocking nor cynical. It is beneficial, for it is a form of tender lucidity. An elegance

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
5 days ago1 min read


Magical thought n° 166
How beautifully put! ❗️ A paradox stated with humor 😜, which perfectly sums up what our relationship with our cell phones can become 📱 Let's be clear: this tool is indeed useful. It has even profoundly transformed our lives. Useful, yes… provided it stays in its place, that is, that of a tool 😉 However, today, it sometimes tends to become a real object of alienation 🫨 When our phones were tethered ☎️, we couldn't take them everywhere. And above all, we weren't constantly

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Jun 11 min read


Magical thought n° 165
This quote might make you smile at first glance 🙂. Don't you think it's beautifully expressed? Then, a moment later, you might wonder what these few words really mean… ❓🤔 What if I told you: look beyond the end of your nose 👃…? Life's messages often arrive unexpectedly, indirectly, and sometimes, yes, unsettlingly 🙄. If you take offense at the tone someone uses when making a remark, or if you dwell on the unpleasantness caused by a difficult experience, you'll only see th

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
May 251 min read


Magical thought n° 164
Insignificant, lonely, and ephemeral beings 🧐❓ A little bit, actually… Aren't we just tiny cosmic specks ✨, each one flitting about as it pleases, lost in the immensity of this world ❓ This writer, whom I adore, invites us here to humility 😌 It's his way of telling us: you are not the center of the universe, you are just passing through… and that's perfectly fine. And then comes the light 💫, the light of that ultimate vibration which is Love… yes, with a capital L ♥️ Love,

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
May 182 min read


Magical thought n° 163
Yes, it's pretty much the same old life every day 🤷♀️… at least, if we're not paying attention. And when you realize that most of these thoughts aren't exactly cheerful, or even downright negative 😵💫… it's a daily grind that isn't exactly thrilling ❗️ So, it's the same thoughts, repeated day after day, that govern our lives… often without us even realizing it. Are we then just little robots, unhappy, moving on autopilot through days devoid of any excitement ❓ The questio

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
May 112 min read


Magical thought n° 162
I recently reread the autobiographical book 📖 by this author I admire. As usual, I've highlighted 📝 the passages that resonate with me, touch me, or even strike a chord… in a good way, of course 😉 We have so much trouble these days controlling our attention… bombarded, stimulated, and overstimulated 🤪 that we are… far too often. Recognizing that each day is a gift from Life 🫴, and that it is anything but a certainty, allows us to bring awareness back into this whirlwi

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
May 41 min read


Magical thought n° 161
Forgiving doesn't mean erasing what happened. Forgiveness also doesn't mean forgetting what was. Forgiveness doesn't mean burying the hatchet and never speaking of it again. There are things that can never be forgotten and that, for some wounds, will leave lifelong scars, with which we will learn to live. Some of these scars may even enhance our present 💫, but not always… Forgiving means freeing ourselves from the ties of the past 🕊️ Forgiveness gives us space to move forwa

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Apr 271 min read


Magical thought n° 160
There are the dreams of our nights 😴… the ones we tell… or don’t 😉 Then there are the dreams of our lives. The ones we perhaps tell even less 😌 The ones we keep to ourselves, like a secret 🤫 The ones we don’t dare share… and sometimes don’t even dare believe in 😳 Let’s sweep away this restraint 🧹🧹🧹 Keep your dreams to yourself, yes… but believe in them deeply, intensely. It’s by eliminating doubt that our dreams have the best chance—and it’s not luck—of coming true �

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Apr 201 min read


Magical thought n° 159
ou can read all the self-help books you want 📚, you can take countless courses 🤓, each more interesting than the last… If all this knowledge stays in your head without ever reaching your body, if all this knowledge doesn't lead to any concrete changes in your life, if you do the same thing every day… do you think anything will change? ❓ Of course not: nothing will change 🤷♀️ So, what can you do differently starting tomorrow morning ❓ Okay, here's an idea: stop turning on

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Apr 131 min read


Magical thought n° 158
I'm not talking about perfection—it doesn't exist (and frankly, it would be so boring 🙄)—but about presence. 🌱 Seeing the beauty in every moment, 🌱 Celebrating the grace of every movement, 🌱 Embracing the nuances of every emotion, 🌱 Fully inhabiting every silence, 🌱 Offering the world a sincere presence. Let's unravel the ball of our lives 🧶, not made of rough cotton, but of silken thread 💫. Living this way means stepping out of "autopilot" mode 🤖 to rediscover the a

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Apr 61 min read


Magical thought n° 157
The quote 📝 I've chosen for you this week is like a small key 🗝️ that unlocks a very large inner door 💫. It's often said that our thoughts shape our reality, or that life is what we believe. And indeed, that's exactly what happens. What we believe acts like a silent program. You know, that program we're not aware of… but which is definitely there, constantly, and functions like a self-fulfilling prophecy 😲. If you think " I can, " your brain goes into "solution-finding" m

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Mar 302 min read


Magical thought n° 156
We are living in chaotic times ⚡️. What if we considered chaos not as a problem, but as a step to take 👣? Isn't it the same when chaos takes hold in our lives ❓ This chaos may last for a shorter or longer time, but it will lead to something new 🫴. Something we hadn't thought of and that would never have happened if we hadn't gone through this chaos. Chaos as a transition, as a transformation, as a metamorphosis of one or another aspect of our lives 🌀. The old order no lo

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Mar 232 min read


Magical thought n° 155
Our minds are particularly fond of what they know. They love routine. What's familiar reassures them, and since their mission is to protect us, novelty isn't really their cup of tea 😳. What's unknown means to them: ⚠️ danger alert 😱! It's a warning, so we don't go there 👎. It's safer to stay where everything is familiar 😉. But isn't life made up of experiences ❓ And experience means exploration, discovering what we don't yet know 🔎. Yes, every experience begins where th

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Mar 162 min read


Magical thought n° 154
We can wallow in despair about the state of the world 😔, about how hard life is 😩, about some people who are only concerned with themselves ☹️. We can complain that everything is going wrong, tell ourselves that there's nothing we can do 🤷♀️. Yet, there is always something we can do. And that something lies within us. Discussing the tragedies currently unfolding on our planet, over and over again, won't change anything. On the contrary, we will only feed this already chao

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Mar 91 min read


Magical thought n° 153
Human existence is like a triptych, each panel revealing a different dimension: • The quality of our experience with ourselves • The quality of our relationships with others • The quality of our impact on the world No need to say more 😌. I'm sure each of you will have your own answers to these existential questions. Living with this perspective in mind enriches existence through presence to oneself, to others, and to the world 💫. Presence is the key, and mastering attention

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Mar 21 min read


Magical thought n° 152
Literature enriches life, and books 📚 are one of its finest mediums. Nicolas Beuglet writes in his latest book, Transylvania : “Reading improves memory and concentration. Reading enriches vocabulary. Reading increases our empathy by allowing us to feel and understand lives or emotions that are not our own. Reading soothes the mind and reduces stress. Reading stimulates creativity. Reading prolongs life.” Unfortunately, the world's population is reading less and less 😢… And

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Feb 231 min read


Magical thought n° 151
Thinking about death can seem bleak. Yet, if we shift our perspective 🔭, it's precisely this awareness that makes life so precious ✨. The awareness that our time on Earth is limited compels us to ask ourselves this simple question, one I ask myself and you regularly: what truly matters ❓ When we become aware of the finite nature of life, certain concerns lose their importance 🙃. You're stuck in traffic 😤. So what? You got a stain on your clothes just before leaving the ho

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Feb 162 min read


Magical thought n° 150
“No more than a mere obstacle for high-achieving executives, and certainly not the preserve of the weak or the underachievers. We aren't 'on the verge of burnout' every time we feel tired, or even overworked, and a week or a month off work isn't enough to ward it off. Burnout is serious and extremely dangerous. It's the culmination of a process riddled with stages that we unconsciously and involuntarily go through, one after the other and under certain conditions, until the f

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Feb 91 min read


Magical thought n° 149
We're all, or almost all, chasing after time, aren't we? 🏃♀️ As if it were slipping away from us… 🫳 What if, ultimately, time isn't what really matters? 🏃♀️ What if it isn't the real problem? ⏳ Because no, it isn't. Time is the same for all of us. What truly drains and exhausts us 😓 is that our attention is scattered in every direction. We've become attention-diverted! ❗️ Every beep announcing yet another notification 📲, every thought that loops endlessly in our heads

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Feb 21 min read


Magical thought n° 148
This is the last Magical Thought of the year, and perhaps the most important of all. In my opinion, it represents the recipe for Happiness , with a capital H. The key to Happiness lies in the little details of everyday life that we appreciate, but often don't savor enough. For me, it's the warmth of the coffee ☕️ I drink every morning, the smell of rain 🌧️ and the sound of thunder ⚡️, the roast chicken 🍗 I share on Sunday evenings with David, my husband, the radiant smile �

Dr. Sandra Stallaert
Dec 22, 20251 min read
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